Thursday, September 26, 2013
Monday, January 21, 2013
Centipede by Whang-od, a 92-year-old last Filipino traditional tattoo artist
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| Whang-od hammers the citrus thorn on my ankle. Photo by Des Quijalvo, a new-found friend I met when I was in search of Whang-od. |
Citrus (lemon) thorn, bamboo sticks, charcoal and an ice cream container: these are treasures to ApoWhang-od, the last and the oldest traditional tattoo (mambabatok) artist in the Philippines who passionately tries to make the tradition of tattooing in the Philippines still alive.
And before the traditional artistic treasure of tattooing disappears in the Philippines, I made sure I got the chance to experience it with the legend's hand, from the 92-year-old Filipina tattoo artist, Apo Whang-od.
I was with my new-found friends, Achie, Ela, Des, Ro and Eitheen, whom I just met in the bus while heading to Buscalan. It was only when I arrived in Sagada that I decided to get inked by her. The day I learned that she is still alive.
We trekked with our tour guide Kuya Charlie for almost an hour in the mountains of Barangay Buscalan, Kalinga to meet Whang-od. It takes almost an hour of trekking to arrive to Whang-od's community.
Whang-od was not around when we reached her place. She was still at the rice field. And after few minutes of waiting, we met Whang-od at her humble house. She was still full of thorns from grasses around her clothes.
Whang-od immediately prepared her tattoo gears without minding to rest. I wonder if she washed her hands before preparing for the tattoo session.
I volunteered to be inked first as I was catching up an early morning trip to Bontoc and be back to Manila early in the evening the next day.
She asked me to sit down on a monoblock chair , just right outside there toilet, and put a portion of log to position my right foot. Then she started sketching the centipede design , which she suggested, on my right ankle using the charcoal. Centipede in the Filipino tradition represents the warrior's buddy to protect him/her from harm.
Despite her age, Whang-od I believe don't have difficulty with her sight not like other oldies at her age. She was focused and amazed that she can even follow the details of her sketch. Her hands were calm. I wonder where she got her strength and calmness despite her age.
For almost an hour, I was so busy enduring the pain and at the same time feeling the fresh air, seeing the scenic view of the mountains, clouds, rice terraces, observing the locals, the wild pigs passing by and the every details of tattoo Whang-od has on her arms.
Whang-od hammered my ankle using two bamboo stick, one with the citrus thorn and the other stick to tap for the ink to leave under the skin.
Hearing the hammering sound is a torture but I didn't mind. In the first place, I really intend to get inked by her without minding the risk and thrill traveling alone in a strangers' place. Good thing, I met friends while on my way to Whang-od's place.
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| This is culture which most Filipinos haven't experienced and just saw it on history books. |
To be honest, Whang-od's way is more painful than the modern way of tattooing. I got inked at my back two years ago but Whang-od's way is more painful than the machine. For me, its triple the pain of the machine. I know it was not sanitary and It might get infections but I didn't mind.
After almost an hour, Whang-od finished my centipede tattoo. She stood up and immediately fed the wild pigs before she started tattooing Ro.
Whang-od for me is a Philippine living treasure. She is a Philippine living culture. And being inked by Whang-od, an old woman who devotes her life, she started when she was 16, for this Filipino tradition not to die, is a great honor that I will never take for granted. She just revived my spirit and be a proud Filipina.
I am few of the luckiest person who was inked by the legendary Apo Whang-od.
Note: I don't encourage you to do this but If you decide to do this, it is worth the pain, that's if you are a proud Filipino and if you want this tradition to live until the next generations.
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| Whang-od busy working on my ankle while I am managing the pain. |
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| Can this little boy be Whang-od's second-liner,? |
Saturday, August 25, 2012
A sweet slice of life....Must-try cakes and pastries in the islands...
So if you ask me, what I do? I say, "I travel and experience a taste of every place,". Whenever I am out, I love to act and feel like a local of the place- trying hard to speak the dialect, listen to local's stories especially those who are in poverty, and experience the place, culture and food.
And every time I am on travel, personal or work-related, I make sure to spend time alone, be in the beach or enjoy those only-in-this place- coffee shops and restaurants.
And I know it is hard to find if you don't know the place or if it is your first time to visit the place, especially if you travel alone. I know how it feels because I am one, I am like you.
And so I'd like to share with you few of my best finds across the islands of Philippines. And since I am sweet today, I'd like you to share with you sweet foodies - cakes and pastries - that literally melts in your mouth.
Every time I visit the place, the trip is not complete without re(tasting) these yummy foodies. Here are, for me, the must-try across the islands of Philippines:
Sampaguita Garden's Chocolate Moist cake- New Washington, Aklan
Bacolod City, Calea Cake
Tacloban, Leyte- Miyara's Cakes and Pastries
Mint Leaf's Blueberry Cheesecake - Malaybalay, Bukidnon
The best cheesecake I ever tasted so far. If you are in Malaybalay, just tell the tricycle to drop you off to Mint Leaf. And if you love Durian, try their Durian coffee, a perfect combination for your cheesecake and the cozy ambiance plus the fanstastic Baguio-like weather.
Sans Rival's Silvanas - Dumaguete, Negros Oriental
Your Dumaguete experience won't be complete if you miss to visit Sans Rival and taste their Silvanas. Sans Rival is just near the Boulevard and well-known to locals, just ask the tricycle driver to drop you off to their shop.
So far those are the best but of course I am still counting...
C'mon friends, join me in finding good stuff here in Philippines. Let's go, taste and explore the sweet slice of life. It's in our hands.
And every time I am on travel, personal or work-related, I make sure to spend time alone, be in the beach or enjoy those only-in-this place- coffee shops and restaurants.
And I know it is hard to find if you don't know the place or if it is your first time to visit the place, especially if you travel alone. I know how it feels because I am one, I am like you.
And so I'd like to share with you few of my best finds across the islands of Philippines. And since I am sweet today, I'd like you to share with you sweet foodies - cakes and pastries - that literally melts in your mouth.
Every time I visit the place, the trip is not complete without re(tasting) these yummy foodies. Here are, for me, the must-try across the islands of Philippines:
Sampaguita Garden's Chocolate Moist cake- New Washington, Aklan
Bacolod City, Calea Cake
Tacloban, Leyte- Miyara's Cakes and Pastries
Mint Leaf's Blueberry Cheesecake - Malaybalay, Bukidnon
The best cheesecake I ever tasted so far. If you are in Malaybalay, just tell the tricycle to drop you off to Mint Leaf. And if you love Durian, try their Durian coffee, a perfect combination for your cheesecake and the cozy ambiance plus the fanstastic Baguio-like weather.
Sans Rival's Silvanas - Dumaguete, Negros Oriental
Your Dumaguete experience won't be complete if you miss to visit Sans Rival and taste their Silvanas. Sans Rival is just near the Boulevard and well-known to locals, just ask the tricycle driver to drop you off to their shop.
So far those are the best but of course I am still counting...
C'mon friends, join me in finding good stuff here in Philippines. Let's go, taste and explore the sweet slice of life. It's in our hands.
Sunday, July 29, 2012
Little star on earth
I have had been known and seen alone, most of the times; a woman who distress alone; a woman who solves the problem alone; and a woman who loves to travel alone.
Being alone has been my comfort zone, even on weekends. I prefer spending my weekend travelling alone where I breath the fresh air, see the clear skies or and the blue seas or just stay in a room, wherever place I am at.
As the saying goes, "Alone doesn't have to mean lonely". It has been my motto ever since but not until this March, not until my Papa was diagnosed with colon cancer.
Since March, the situation has changed. Most of the times, I have been so preoccupied with my fears and worries. Lonesome drowns me.
Coping up with all these have been a struggle. What's keeping me sane are messages, in any forms. Just like the messages I received last night, two messages in a form of a text message and from the the movie I watched.
As the saying goes, "Alone doesn't have to mean lonely". It has been my motto ever since but not until this March, not until my Papa was diagnosed with colon cancer.
Since March, the situation has changed. Most of the times, I have been so preoccupied with my fears and worries. Lonesome drowns me.
Coping up with all these have been a struggle. What's keeping me sane are messages, in any forms. Just like the messages I received last night, two messages in a form of a text message and from the the movie I watched.
The movie: Every child is special
The movie produced by a Bollywoord actor and producer Aamir Khan, one of the actors of 3 Idiots, has moved me so much. I can’t put into writing any word that describes the entire movie. I am just so in awe of Ishan, the little boy in the movie. And the story blow me away.
I see myself on the little child. Almost every scene touched me. I can’t have enough of it, I didn’t event mind watching it for the 2nd time just after finishing it last night. The messages strike me, as if M(y) U(ultimate) B(uddy) is the one speaking to me.
And in random here are those messages:
Don’t lose hope
There are breaths of fresh air
Setting up free
Discover yourself
Knowing who you are
Your potential is endless in the sky
Fly on; Fly high
Free your mind
You will find your purpose where you find your happiness
A co-worker’s text message
While watching the movie, my workmate Ate Jing texted me about work and asked me about personal things which matters to me most now - my father who is fighting against colon cancer; Her message blow me away that I end up weeping, tears running on my cheeks; it didn't even stop until I finish writing this piece.
And I quote, “Ma relate lagi naho nganha nimo ang story sa man nga gipa push sa daku nga stone. Gikapoy na siya sa kabug-at sa iya task pero wala siya kabantay nga because sa ka bug-at nga task na develop iya musles. Ingana pud ka Mai.” (I can relate your story to man who was task to push a big stone. He was too tired to carry it but he didn’t notice that because of how heavy the task was he didn’t realize that his muscles were developed. You are just like him, Mai)
And I quote, “Ma relate lagi naho nganha nimo ang story sa man nga gipa push sa daku nga stone. Gikapoy na siya sa kabug-at sa iya task pero wala siya kabantay nga because sa ka bug-at nga task na develop iya musles. Ingana pud ka Mai.” (I can relate your story to man who was task to push a big stone. He was too tired to carry it but he didn’t notice that because of how heavy the task was he didn’t realize that his muscles were developed. You are just like him, Mai)
I didn’t know how and why it happened but I guess MUB must been so worried about me. He might be so worried on the thoughts running on my mind - all these fears and worries that I can’t speak to those around me, except those I trusted the most.
The messages I got makes me feel MUB’s presence. I know all these messages didn’t come in coincidence. It came with a great purpose. It came to remind me that despite all those fears and worries, on my mind and heart, which I think are too heavy for me to carry shall end. That the star that almost loses its brightness will come back and be found again.
Lord, I know you are there and I promise not to lose the light, it will be back on shining. One of your little stars will be back on shining. I promise!
Every Child is Special is a must see movie.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=anCPlh18xSA&feature=related. This is link is just clips of the entire movie.
Saturday, June 16, 2012
I stand still for you
Monday, June 11, 2012
You
Wednesday, May 09, 2012
Guilty as charged!
traI am sharing with you thoughts from Omar Arabia, an alternative medicine doctor whom I met a week ago.
Here thoughts about health are very striking that makes you feel guilty, at times.
Here are some of those:
- We tend to be too focus to be successful but forget or ignore our physical health; then we just realize the value of health when it's already cramming time.
- We don't catch diseases, we create them slowly by breaking down our natural defenses according to the way we eat, drink, think, feel and live
- There are no such things as incurables; there are only things for which man has not found a cure- Bernard Baruch
Isn't it a reminder for everyone? Let's be healthy!
| Fresh veggies at Baguio Market. Everytime I travel to Baguio, I drop at the market to check there fresh goodies. |
Here thoughts about health are very striking that makes you feel guilty, at times.
Here are some of those:
- We tend to be too focus to be successful but forget or ignore our physical health; then we just realize the value of health when it's already cramming time.
- We don't catch diseases, we create them slowly by breaking down our natural defenses according to the way we eat, drink, think, feel and live
- There are no such things as incurables; there are only things for which man has not found a cure- Bernard Baruch
Isn't it a reminder for everyone? Let's be healthy!
Saturday, March 03, 2012
Part 1: Doubts, fears ignored! (A swim with whale sharks)
Saturday, September 24, 2011
Lone traveler - Hong Kong and Macau trip
To go to a place alone where I never been before has been my practice as a birthday treat for myself. I started this last year and has been my addiction and tradition.
This year’s trip is something different as it is travelling overseas- to Hong Kong and Macau- without knowing anyone from there.
This trip is a personal dare. It is my second dare for the month of September.
All those I mentioned were experienced in Hong Kong for two days and a day in Macau last September 18-20,2011. And of course I won’t miss capturing my experiences, in written, photograph, and of course through the lessons I learned from the trip in preparation for my another trip next year.
But you have to forgive me for taking just a few photos. I only have 177 photos, including some fireworks video in Disneyland. Forgive me for not bringing a SD card that has enough memory. I didn’t bought one there because I just want to simply embrace what I just have aside from having a tight budget. (I got a LESSON LEARNED though: To bring extra SD cards all the time.)
My trip allowed me to meet a lot of strangers from different races and I want to highlight those people whom had have been harmful and helpful along the way. The strangers I met were Filipinos and other races from different parts of the world.
When I arrived in Hong Kong, it was around 1 am. I was looking for a money changer to change my peso to Hong Kong dollar but unfortunately found no one at the airport; money changer shop was still close at that time.
But my Buddy is simply so good. He sent His angels to save me. He sent this four Hiligaynon speaking girls from Iloilo (One of the places which is very close to my heart). I met them at the airport’s restroom. I approached them and found out that they too were also looking for a money changer and have the same hostel where I booked mine.
Since I don’t have HK dollar, I asked them if they can lend me 33 HK dollars for my fare from the airport to the hostel., and just pay them when we arrive at the hostel. The girls allowed me to borrow. Hehe..I don’t mind if you call me shameless. Haha.. (LESSON LEARNED: Change some of your peso to dollar before leaving your country.)
Then, my first day started.
I was already in "Dora the Explorer" mode, as my workmates often call me, bringing my backpack where my camera, tumbler and Hong Kong map are inside.
I was with the girls and we were heading to Lantau Island, an island park where Hong Kong's historical sites and the giant Buddha are found.
To reach the island, we rode a cable car for 25 minutes. It is almost 6 kilometers ropeway that allows you to enjoy the 360 degree bird’s eye view look and breath the fresh air of Hong Kong. It was so fun but not recommended for those who have fear in heights and enclosed spaces.
I wish to have my photos taken during the ride but unfortunately no one has an eye for photography. LESSON LEARNED: Bring tripod especially when you travel alone. The tripod is a good travel buddy.
I wish to have my photos taken during the ride but unfortunately no one has an eye for photography. LESSON LEARNED: Bring tripod especially when you travel alone. The tripod is a good travel buddy.
I found my own way going to the Giant Buddha as I prefer to be alone. While I was walking at their Buddhist-designed architecture village on my way to the Giant Buddha, I met an Indian man who asked me to take photo of him with the Buddha as his background. There was also a Chinese woman who approached me to have my photo taken.; I think she was able to sense that I was looking for someone to take photo of me.
In one of the shops, I saw the Indian man again who again asked me to have his photo taken with this Buddha picture frames and wall as background. Then the sales lady asked us, “Do you want me to take picture of you both,” we both smiled and I quickly answered, “No! It 's ok. Thank you”.
The saleslady might be thinking that we were travelling together. I wish to answer her, “I am sorry miss; I am not in your place to find a partner. I just want to contemplate, discern and destress.” Hahaha. The experience made me realize that I don’t want to be in love with a perfect stranger, as my friend desired it to be. It is actually her wildest dream.
The saleslady might be thinking that we were travelling together. I wish to answer her, “I am sorry miss; I am not in your place to find a partner. I just want to contemplate, discern and destress.” Hahaha. The experience made me realize that I don’t want to be in love with a perfect stranger, as my friend desired it to be. It is actually her wildest dream.
After a few minutes of sightseeing and walking, I arrived at the top of the mountain where the giant Buddha sits serenely. It is believed to be the tallest outdoor Buddha. I am not a religious person but getting nearer with the Buddha gives me a feeling of spiritual intimacy with my Buddy.
Then day 2 came.
I allowed my feet decide where to go. My feet took me to Central, a district in Hong Kong where most of the signature shops are found. (If you happen to be a tourist, I suggest you to buy their tourist pass cost 55 dollars where you can enjoy the unlimited Mass Transit Railway ride for 24-hours. MTR is their version of our MRT.)
I went out to the MTR station and a Jamaican looking guy caught my attention as he was following me and annoyingly asked if I am alone. I supposed to cross the street going to a clothing shop but he won’t stop asking me the same question so I decided to change direction thinking that he will stop and will not follow me anymore. But after a few minutes, I again hear someone calling me from my back. I turned back and saw the guy again. I walked so fast for him to understand that I am not interested and don't want to entertain him. I felt relieved when he went back on his way. LESSON LEARNED: Never panic. Be always wise and quick to think for options.
Then I saw this signage to "St John Cathedral". I think it s a missionary Catholic Church because there was a signage outside the church that says “Mission Filipino”. They might be helping Filipino people.
I stayed for an hour to have my intimate moment with my Buddy. And of course asked Him for creativity, courage, strength, wisdom and of course my heart’s desire . It is the same prayer request which I always ask from Him wherever I am, at any of our field offices. But my Antique-based friends/workmates would always include my prayer requests every Monday during their weekly devotion. I wish He will grant all my requests soon.
After Church, I went to Peak Tram and tried the train ride going to the uphill part of Hong Kong for a historical visit.While roaming around, I saw this Disneyland booth at the ground floor and met one of the Disneyland staff. Her name is Gladys. She was so kind answering some of my questions for possible destination which I can visit and Disneyland schedules like the shows, fireworks and parade time. I bought my Disneyland ticket there and gave me a Disneyland pen secretly. She told me not to tell anyone that she gave me a pen.
Glady’s recommended me to go straight to Disneyland to catch up the 3:00 p.m. parade and 7:30 p.m. fireworks show then to proceed to Mong Kok after the fireworks show for souvenier shopping. Mong Kok is actually their version of Divisoria or Baclaran in Manila and Night CafĂ© in Cagayan de Oro.
It was a long MTR trip to Disneyland. The MTR train from Sunny Bay, an interchange section to Disneyland has this customized Mickey Mouse statues and hand grips inside. The mood inside the MTR was so light as everyone were very excited to enter Disneyland. Everyone means not just children but people who are young at heart, even those people who are their 60's. I think this Disneyland’s saying - "Here You Leave Today And Enter The World of Yesterday, Tomorrow and Fantasy" is really true.
Gladys advice has been very helpful. Thanks to her, I was able to experience some of the rides and catch up the Lion King, Golden Mickey show, Disneyland parade and the 15-minute fireworks display at the Sleeping Beauty Castle.
I was not able to contain the enchanting and magical experience and since I was alone I just wrote those feeling in my notebook.
Seeing the 15-minute firework display at Sleeping Beauty Castle’s while listening to Disney songs was definitely the best.
Seeing the 15-minute firework display at Sleeping Beauty Castle’s while listening to Disney songs was definitely the best.
If this will happen, I promise to marry the man and take care of him, including all his needs for a lifetime...hahaha..I know it is a crazy dream. Dream on, Mai!
The 15-minute firework experience while standing in front of the Sleeping Beauty Castle was even more enchanting and magical when I got a good news straight from Philippines. The good news is an answered prayer that I had been asking for a couple of years now. Thanks Kuya Jhun for a very timely text message.
Then my last day came. I traveled to Macau.
Then my last day came. I traveled to Macau.
My Macau experience was definitely the funniest, terrible and somehow traumatic experience I had.
Because of being excited to take photo at the Immigration area, I never noticed a lot of signboards prohibiting people to take photos.
I took photos at the Immigration area then the Macau Immigration officer and the police called my attention. The police even used his whistle. I was so nervous that they might not allow me to get in Macau and the worst, would detain me for violating their rules.
Negative thoughts were running on my mind at that time. They might might seek revenge for what they just experienced with us, Pinoys. I was recalling all those incidents of drug trafficking, the one-year –old bus incident happened in Manila and etc.
But aside from my Immigration experience, Macau had given me a great venue to just simply relax by just sitting at the corner, starring their amazing architectures and watching Gondola ride while the Gondolier, the Gondola driver, was singing Italian songs.
I was not able to visit different places in Macau but seeing the architecture inside the The Venetian Hotel is more than enough- the Gondola experience and the Italian-designed architecture inside the hotel. It was the best place to end my trip.
I was not able to visit different places in Macau but seeing the architecture inside the The Venetian Hotel is more than enough- the Gondola experience and the Italian-designed architecture inside the hotel. It was the best place to end my trip.
My three days and two nights trip was priceless. The experience made me realize how it is to be a stranger in one’s place. It is so exciting to experience the risk, uncertainty and also the adventure, excitement, fun and surprises that you encounter along the way; And to know and identify, even at the first glance, who among those strangers you met along the way are helpful or harmful.
The experience gave me another perspective in my life and I think gave me more depth with all my reflections and "Aha" moments encountered along the way . Those experiences and strangers I met had have imparted a learning experience. I hope I was able to capture all of those in my notebook.
Thanks to my friends, Karen, Michelle and Sandy for helping me with this trip.And to those strangers I met especially those who helped me along the way. Thanks napud sa mga harmful na tao I met..You rock my trip fellas!















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